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With my current setup with Adam, he knows that yes, I am attracted to other people and am sleeping with some. And there’s no confidence booster like remembering that it’s me whom he comes home to and loves deeply. He knows all of my quirks, he knows what makes me tick and how to reason with me.Nobody knows me like Adam does, and nobody is going to know him like I do.They also welcome multitudes into their bed for great big orgies.
Throughout high school and college, some of my relationships overlapped, and some were purely dishonest.
We don’t get mad at each other if something happens that feels uncomfortable as long as it’s not a violation of an existing rule; we learn from it, and make a new rule.
Rule 1: This was the first rule we made up: This is our primary relationship.
And lest you think we’re a small subculture of free-love weirdos, research over the last several years estimates that 4-5 percent of relationships in the U. Many people feel that having a relationship or sex with only one person for an indefinite amount of time is too difficult and unnatural. For most of my life I was a serial monogamist and constantly cheating.
In fact, I only had one successful monogamous relationship. (And everybody gets laid.)A lot of non-monogamous couples joke that they spend more time talking about it than they do getting any. I'm not saying monogamy is impossible, or improbable.