To reply dating
When a guy immediately wants to know what you’re looking for, the pressure is on.
After all, you’re not exactly going to tell him you want a Pinterest perfect wedding. I assume if we matched on an app, you find something about me not repulsive.
I’d rather chat than receive empty compliments from a complete stranger. If you respond to a boy’s simple “hey,” he suddenly asks when you want to get together for drinks.
Guys will immediately ask for your number, which seems kind of sketchy.
If you reply to a quick “hey,” most guys will try to move the conversation offline immediately.
The worst is when you return to find someone yelling at you in all caps about ignoring them.
Just like when a guy buys you a drink and you don’t go home with him, when someone messages you and you don’t respond because you’re not interested, it’s okay — you don’t owe him anything. If you know that you’re going to reply to all of your messages, you’ll be choosier about who you’re swiping.