Dating dating in europe
Of course this is obviously not true for every single American, but it is the view that is generally conveyed to the outside.
In reality, though, American couples are often still getting to know each other when they are already together, and could easily end up holding their partner’s best friend’s hand in the next instant.
The only countries that do share the European date format in fact are the US, Philippines, Palau, the Federated States of Micronesia, Canada and Belize.
Interestingly the European date format is not used by the European Union itself, and for international affairs many countries opt instead to use ‘ISO 8601’ standard date format.
Here the organisation is closer to the US dating but with the year placed at the start, for example ‘2010/12/20’.
My theory is that Europeans feel a lot safer in their tiny familiar communities, little towns and social circles where everyone knows everyone, that they are a lot more afraid to commit to one person within this already-figured-out social life.
Americans, on the other hand, can feel a lot more lost in the crowd of a huge, diverse population and thus are more likely to commit to someone without making it the search for the Holy Grail.